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COMPLAINTS! A MEANS TO BE BETTER

Average mortal man hates complaints.
We hate it when people make some complaints about our clothes, shoes, dressing, work, business, the way we handle things and many more...

Most times, we don't only hate the complaints, we hate the giver of the complaints too...
We just find out we don't wanna hear the person speak.

But the truth is:
Most complaints make us better...
Most complaints build us...
Most complaints make us see whatever we fail to see normally.

But we fail to see the reason why we must listen to people even when they make the complaints.

It takes a humble Spirit to take to complaints and see the good side of it...

Sometimes ago, I bought a zobo drink from a lady, I couldn't but notice a trace of red oil inside the bottle cover.
Well, I knew how it feels when people complain about what you sell, so I was trying to call it to her attention so as people around wouldn't hear. She didn't notice what I was trying to do so she wasn't calm...
Well, I showed her and of course, she felt really bad...she actually felt like crying. I tried calming her down, try telling her it's normal...


I tried making her see the reason to be more careful.
I knew after that moment, she would not just be careful, she would be more than extra careful...

When people complain.
Don't fight it
Don't feel embarrassed
Don't get angry.

Take that moment to check out the complaints and get better...


Yeah, some people find it difficult to talk in a way you understand...
Some just talk to you anyhow
Some just complain, embarrass you, make you feel like you don't know what you're doing and sometimes you feel offended and wanted to give up...
No, it's not the time to give up
Rather, It's the time to brace up...

Work on the complaints
And the complaints will make you better.


Kindly watch out for the second part of this slide...

The Father's daughter...

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