LEARN TO SAY GOODBYE!

She thought it would sound like stark perdition, the very moment she said it's over and I guess she was expecting me to jump into well, crying profusely like a primary school student who lost his T.fare

You know what, She was surprised to see me bursting into laughter on phone, she said Gbenga, am not joking with you and my response must have fingered her brain and left her lonely in the land of wonderment

I just said it's ok, wishing you the very best in life and any other thing baby?

She sent her friend over to verify the status of my health, she was flabbergasted with the report her friend detailed ...

Her friend met me dancing gbese and spicing it up with some shaku shaku style.

Not only that, I also ordered freshly made yummy ice cream from the trail of Domino Pizza and two sumptuous laps of chicken expertly baked by Mrs. Daniel…

“Learn to say goodbye”

The description ascribed to human nature as detailed by economists makes it crystal clear to us that, we are “insatiable beings”

The ardent philosophy behind this notion simply means we are prone to changing as season changes...

It is very important to write this on the tablet of our hearts, “the angel you know this minute, could switch to a beast the next minute”

*he scripture didn't fail to attest to this standing notion, the scripture says, “trust in the Lord, with all your heart and lean not on your understanding...”

Don't be unfortunately stupid, to depend solely on the understanding of men, they are prone to change, even the life we live is not staged on the platform of certainty

The true strength of a man is not tested in a state of comfortability, it is tested in a state of adversity

*t is pertinent to work towards securing a flexible heart for yourself or else, you might result in any form of calamitous state

You must be ready to walk from “head to toe” and build a kind of elastic heart that can be otherwise called “a large heart”

Learn to say goodbye, it is unnecessarily stupid to cry over a spilled milk, it's just like trying to drive a car with no engine

Do you know, it is even a sin to worry over something you can't control?

Do you know, it is even a sin, to cry over a day, you know you can't create? Or can you add a second to your existence?

Life is undoubtedly laced with bitterness and sweetness, evil and good and on like that…

No one makes it with tears, people make it through efforts, discipline, focus, and uninterrupted consistency

“To be the best, you have to beat the beast”

The beast in this context is any kind of negativity that is capable of draining your happy spirit and makes you look like a catastrophic fool

“Whatever drains your smile is tantamount to a beast...”

It is also important to stress this, you can't be healed of your grief if you are nursing hatred in your heart”

“You have nothing to gain if you keep on fantasizing over a milk that has already been spilled”

“As a matter of fact, I will advise you to forgive those that have hurt you to the bone, even before they seek forgiveness”

The tool for consistent success is drawn from the very eyes of happiness

Learn to say goodbye and stay happy!