Battle For Identity

Jessica drove into one of the biggest restaurants in town, her appearance was a reflection of her worth



Every single person she met on her way inside was seen running their eyes on her angelic stature, her beautiful Piaget Limelight wristwatch, a full-length gown laced with gold and you know what, it was fit and flare

She didn't only attract those she met outside, the moment she stepped into the restaurant, everybody's attention was focused on her

Someone silently said, this lady must be a princess, another one said, no! she must be a queen of Texas...

She looked stunningly and smashingly gorgeous which made it hard for every single man to put their eyes off her

She became the controller

Jessica was a mortal being like every other person but was identified as a Queen in this context

She became “a small god” controlling almost the thoughts of everyone she met on her way, steering to the restaurant


I am sure you know, she was not a goddess, she never came from an extremely rich family and she was far from being a witch

She became an invisible horse running freely inside the hearts of men

She was accorded with the respect meant for a queen or princess, whereas she was just a common being like you and me

What magic did she use?

The magic of identity, Jessica fought and won a battle of her desired identity

Just like an old axiom, which says;

“You will be addressed, the way you are dressed”

I think Jessica must have mastered that old axiom

No double ways about it, if you don't believe in yourself, no one will be ready to believe in you

How do you place yourself before the world?

Battle for identity goes beyond physical justifications

The values you have inside are what will stream to the outside

No matter how good you are, if you are of low self-esteem, you may not have the job secured, you may not have the contract sealed, you may not have the mission accomplished and so on

How do you place your identity before the world, low or high?

If you rate yourself low inside, you will definitely be rated low outside

Having self-esteem should not be mistaken as Pride, they are two different things entirely

Your account might be slim today, that does not mean, your account won't go fatter

Not having a vehicle to drive around now, doesn't mean you won't have it

Not having expensive wears today, does not mean you won't have the best tomorrow

Look up

Touch your chest

Stop rating yourself low

Stop rating yourself low because of your current situation

It is a phase, it is not your fate, it will pass, so smile, dream and work to get there

So don't ever feel inferior, even if your wears have gone obsolete

Don't ever feel inferior among your peers, you will reach beyond dreams

I charge you, to style “that obsolete wears” with swags, don't give anyone the chance to lord over your life

Believe in yourself, move out with credence