I LOVE MY WIFE

“Women are meant to be loved, not to be molested or used ”that was one of the strong pillars that help in strengthening my home

Her skin looks glossy and silky each and every new day and that has always been my joy

My mission is to make her smile in any way I can, she is my garden I can't stop watering every single day…

The old Africa mentality will always deny us the benefits of a happy home

There are so many stupid and barbaric beliefs in our traditions that could make us turn women into slaves...

Alright, It is quite acceptable that the man is the head of the family but that shouldn't turn women into slaves

“I reiterate women are meant to be loved not molested”

Every home that glows love and prosperity is a function of a man who has perfectly understood the fact that“ women are meant to be loved not used or molested”

The real thing is, women were not wired to think or act like men if you have women acting like men— such a woman is rare to find.

They are flexible and rare gem given to men as a helpmate

How do you treat your woman?

Can I have your attention to announce to you that, everything is not money?

Studies have proven to us that, 90% of women are romantic and flexible.

One of the keys to woman's heart is Romance and of course, you can't display ROMANCE without ATTENTION

Was this fair?

We both left home, sprawling our wings early in the morning of the day; to catch up with one of our life dealings(job) and we got back home very late in the night

Would it be fair for me to sit comfortably in our living room and watch her making meals for us, all by herself?

That would be nothing short of the barbaric act!

Being the head of the family doesn't mean you can't go into the kitchen and make some delicious meals, deal with the laundries, and possibly gives the home a fancy look. Your wife is not your slave, she is your wife!

Loving your woman goes beyond paying bills— electricity bills, children school fees, and every other bill

Your wife is not your slave, she is your life companion!

Having understood this concept would serve as an active contributor to a happy home

Where there is love...

It will be hard to “punch out” a master; everyone will assume the role of a child: probably running inside the garden

You could possibly have the child chasing his dad or the wife chasing her husband with her husband's belt

Love births happiness

Expression of love can not be perfectly quantified by words; where love dwells, happiness can not be found wanting.

In other words, loving your wife automatically means loving yourself.

The inability of a man to love his wife means one thing, he will have his life doomed

“When you are happy, you are healthy”

Love drives the force of happiness to the existence, which will in turn birth healthiness

A happy life is a healthy life

One of the obvious reasons why men are dying earlier is because of their abilities to love their wives, the way they should be loved

“When you are happy, you are healthy”

Do you remember that kind of spectacular joy, you just couldn't hide but express, that moment you know you will be going home to meet your family?

Let me burst your bubble, even when you are sick, you wouldn't be able to explain how that strength ride you home, you will just be happy to go home

Happiness births healthiness

Loving births giving

Holding on to scriptural justifications, as stated in the book of Ephesians 5vs 25, where it was commanded that, husbands should love their wives

Loving your wife also means giving yourself to your wife. Loving and giving can not be separated from each other

For God so loved the world that he gave...— Loving means giving yourself to your wife

God gave Jesus to us out of the love he has for the world— when the world was trembling for doom; he sent Jesus in, to play the role of a striker of salvation

Love is not a micro concept, it is a macro concept

Every man must come to this understanding, your wife is not your slave, she is your queen, who deserves your love, your attention, and your care care

Don't watch your wife preparing meals in the kitchen while you comfortably sit in the living room without rendering help...

Don't be driven out of existence as a result of egoistic attitude

She is your queen not your slave!

Love will be tested...

Many relationships are not being fueled by love, they are being fueled by lust and the brutal part of it is that they might not know until they get married

When the woman starts having babies; that is the very moment, true love will be tested

Love means loving the soul, not just the body

It's a pity today, that, what is being celebrated In many relationships is nothing short of lust

Quote me anywhere, it's impossible for a man or a lady to be faithful and loving if choosing your partner is primarily tied to the physically features

I am convincingly sure, such a person will fail woefully in marriage

For a home to thrive on, it must go beyond the physical features

Your love will be tested!

What will happen to your home; If the beauty of your wife starts fading out?

What will happen; if he couldn't get you all he was getting you when you were courting?

What will happen if the unthinkable happens?

I heard you saying, God forbids, what if it happens

Love is not only tested in sweetness, but it is also tested in difficulties

This is the very moment, you will understand if you have been loving or lusting?

If your love doesn't go beyond the look, you can't withstand storms in marriage

Why do you love your partner?

Evaluate yourself!

Women! Be resourceful!

One of the prevailing issues in our society today is; the world is no longer blessed with resourceful women

Most women of today are fashionista in nature

They barely have things to put on the table; we still have good ones but they are one in a million

“Most women are fast thinkers, not deep thinkers”

This is one of the striking differences between a man and a woman

Women are more emotional than men; they think and act faster. Of course, it's a good trait, desiring in making quick decisions in homes and organizations

The nitty-gritty is, men would feel more relaxed to tell their women virtually everything if they are resourceful

Few women strongly desire to stand fully equipped with sound and updated knowledge while many of them know nothing except fashion

What kind of woman are you?

A fashionista type or a resourceful type?

It's easy to know through your posts & your attitude speaks it all

Of course, you can be both

You can't be truly resourceful without being morally disciplined

“What you do over time will definitely reflect on your attitude”

You can't keep on reading what is bad and still keeps on doing it”

It's hard for a responsible man to leave a resourceful woman when something is not wrong with him

You can't keep reading books that speak on how to manage your resources and keep spending it carelessly

Don't just be a fashionista lady, be resourceful too

Be the reason your man will smile and say, I trust my wife, she can handle it. She is my true representative

Be the reason your husband will call you when he is confused

Be the reason, he will love you beyond your look

Of course, you can't be able to play those roles if you are empty

Learn by reading books on businesses; books on marriages and Godly books

Don't just look fine with nothing upstairs(BIMBO)

Be fashionista and resourceful

No man rejects or shuns a woman of value. Be it!

“You can't know the way if you don't have the map”

“Love doesn't galvanize in sex”

Many young ladies out there believe men can be tamed by different sex styles— that is absolutely incorrect

“Men are not tamed by Sex, they are tamed by good character”

The scripture equally says; wives should be submissive to their husbands; that is character

Ladies! You are on the verge of losing your man if you can't work on your character. Be submissive!

There are so many fishes inside the pond of life but not all of them are friendly

You know I love you and I truly do.

Thanks for reading