One solid point I didn't struggle to deduce from the story of the tower of babel, was the force of unity, even God, as powerful as he is, might not be able to stop them if he didn't distort their common language

Of course, Unity wouldn't be able to exist without love


Love was the instrumental force that made them act beyond the natural realm, I must confess, they were supernatural

It was copiously expressed in the scriptures; you could have divine ability to split oceans into two parts like Moses, you may have divine ability to expressly flow in tongues like Joshua Selman, you may have the divine ability to commandeer fire to strike the earth like Elijah, you may have the divine ability to dream of the future like Joseph, you may have the ability to believe “the impossible” like Abraham and one thing remains the most instrumental gift of all, that is simple love

Lacking love is likened to having a bulb without the light, it is practically useless, oh it is even a toy

It is like having a body without a soul, it is as good as dead

Of course, God's love for humanity was, of course, a divine one, which made him to freely dish out “his only begotten son” as a gift for the atonement of our sins

It was practically an expression of love with no condition

Love makes men do, what mortal men could term to foolishness, let me stress out some practical instances;

Wale gathered his expensive wears and sold them, in order to ensure the perfect healing of his dying lover

Queen took the blame for the offense not committed, in order to save the ass of Gift from being whooped

Emmanuel took a sharp bullet meant for Gold and was found grasping for life...

Shade spent her last penny, to settle her brother's hospital bills, who wouldn't be discharged without balancing his pending bills

All these practical instances are the workings of love...



Then what do we have in our world today?

“Loving with conditions”

I will break it into three steps...

Look, scan for benefits and love




In today's world, we can also spot “love in the display” if there are obviously current benefits to enjoy

If there is no benefit, it will end up with beautiful excuses

Clearly stated, in today's world, hardly will you see a girl enduring with a guy who doesn't have money, it will end story for the gods



You know what, to keep female friends is proportionally accustomed on the basis of money, if she seeks for your help once or twice and you couldn't meet up, it won't be funny, she will start abating your level of conversation before you know it, she will turn out to be a perpetual status viewer

We still have few ladies whose love is not conditioned to such, tell me, how many? It is infinitesimal

It will not be out of place to say, the practice of love is very scarce in our world today

What is being practiced is;look, see benefits and love

Loving with conditions

 I guess the hearts of human have been clouded with lust not love

Men are not helping the matter too, they have betrayed true women who didn't leave them with beautiful excuses when things were hard for them

The wall of love has been broken by the weight of lust

Do I need to first greet you on the basis on benefits?

Do you need to wait for “my Hi” before you say “your hello”?

As simple as that action is, it contains a discharge of love

The wall of our lives are sinking because the wall of love is breaking

We don't truly love, we spoon up our love on the basis of conditions

Should it continue like that?

Of course, it shouldn't...

To build a better atmosphere for living, it shouldn't continue


If I try to see your point and you try to see my point, love will play its role and repair our wounded hearts again

Our love should not be conditioned, it should stand alone

Love with conditions can not stand for ages


If a guy claims he loves you because you are beautiful, tell me what will happen if that beauty fades out


Or if you are loved because you could render financial help to others, what happens if you couldn't help again?

If someone loves you because you are busty or you have a straight figure or any other thing, what do you think will surface if all these physical features are gone?


Don't be deceived by lust disguising as love that can not withstand the test of time

Love with conditions is responsible for reasons both men and women remain unmarried till now and leads to an exponential increase in the number of broken homes


The big questions are?

Why do you love me?

Why do you love him or her?

If your love is only attributed to physical features, like pink lips, fine face, big boobs and all that, with all sincerity you don't love, you have been lusting

If those physical features are not there again, it is certain, the disguised love of yours will faint away in no time

We must love beyond the physical

And it must be with no conditions

You know what, trying to love with conditions can not be satisfied, because human beings are insatiable

You will always see a better guy or a better lady

Accepting your spouse beyond the physical features will do a greater good for your relationship

When you love with no conditions, you will be able to chat, to call and to remember those who do not remember you

Remembering people who do not remember you, does not make you a weaker person, it makes you a stronger person, a personality with a large heart

Don't make friends because you feel they should help you

Our world and wall of existence will be stronger if we can see beyond the outside

I love you and hate no one

It's killing and painful when you see people posting the pictures of a deceased friend, a friend who was practically online some months before and now it's gone, they will start posting his or her picture all around, acting as if, it pained them to the hearts


You don't have to feel proud to check on someone, either through chatting or other means, ordinarily on the basis of care

[Don't bump on someone because you need their help, chat them because you care and you love them with no reason

Don't let them have a quick submission of you, “that you only chat them because you need help”

Show care and love to all, not only those that can help you

Be lovable, approachable and love in return